So I'm doing okay here at Clemson. I've met some cool people so far from this thing I'm involved in. I've decided that my roommate and I may not be good friends like I had wanted. It's okay. I've met people who don't get along with their roommates or be friends with them. She's okay, just she's decided to stop asking me if I want to go places with her. Not that I wanted her to ask me in the first place. Like today she went to dinner, and I hadn't eaten yet, but she didn't even ask if I had. I don't care that she's making other friends. I want to make new friends too. I think one problem is that I'm not very outgoing so I'm not always talking. I'm quiet, and I know this. But if you do get to know me you'll come to find out I'm very sarcastic, and will start talking to you. I did meet this cool guy at the thing I went to today, and he seemed like someone I could be friends with. I just don't know if I'll get to see him that much. So, this weekend I'm hoping to find something interesting to do. I have 3 classes tomorrow, and I think the last one ends at 3 or 4 not sure. Today I only had one class. It was Biology and it started at 8, but I didn't mind since it gave me a free day basically. So I'm going to stop my rant, and maybe my roommate and I will find something in common. We do have some things in common, but she doesn't seem to want to hang out with me. Like I said, if she just got to know me she'd find out that I will actually talk to her. Right now it's super quiet in my room, except my jamming at my keyboard. I need hints on how to meet new people, it's not like I've never made new friends. I made of couple of friends this summer, who seem like I'll actually stay friends with. Argh!!!!!!!! I'm stressed out enough as it is. I don't need this added on to it. ARGH!!!!!! AGAIN! So now I think I will officially stop my rant!
Adios,
Alisha
I think I'm a pretty quiet person too, but I guess I open up after a while. It's okay that your room-mate isn't being the best of friends; you may not have the same interests and stuff, but that's fine as long as you both respect each other. There must be tons of other new people feeling exactly the same way - so I would say spend a little bit more time socialising now than you normally would.
ReplyDeleteI have no idea how the first days at university would be like for me - I have no experience but I hope this helps!